Saturday, December 5, 2009

Laughter

You struggle with money. You struggle without money.
You struggle with love. You struggle without love.
But it's how you manage.
You have to keep laughing, you have to be fun to be with, and you have to live with style--not fancy-schmancy, but in a way which is present and meaningful and has some beauty to it.


Pierce Brosnan

Saturday, November 14, 2009

It's a bird...it's a plane..it's your Librarian!

Librarians are the secret superheroes of the world! - John Green

I snagged this from Jet on the PubLib ListServ -- Thanks!

Saturday, October 10, 2009

Quote-o-Rama

Ignorance is a voluntary misfortune.
-- Italian Proverb

Everybody is ignorant, only on different subjects.
-- Will Rogers

Love talked about can be easily turned aside, but love demonstrated is irresistible.

-- W. Stanley Mooneyham

An ounce of love is worth a pound of knowledge.
-- John Wesley

The beginning of sin is sweet; its end is bitter.
-- Japanese Proverb

Man is the only animal that blushes. Or needs to.
-- Mark Twain

Wise men appreciate all men, for they see the good in each and know how hard it is to make anything good.
-- Baltasar Gracian

A habit for all of us to develop would be to look for something to appreciate in everyone we meet. We can all be generous with appreciation.
-- Carl Holmes

Talking about bulls is not the same as facing them in the ring.
-- Mexican Proverb

He was a bold man that first ate an oyster.
-- Jonathan Swift

Friday, October 9, 2009

God Bless You...

When did people stop saying it?

This saddens me.

Courtesy...it only takes a second!

Sunday, October 4, 2009

Love & Marriage...

Go together like a horse & carriage...

Coffee and love are best when they're hot.
-- German Proverb

A good marriage is like a casserole: only those involved actually know what goes into it.

Wednesday, September 2, 2009

Something to remember when you fall on your face...

Every calamity is a spur and a valuable hint.
Ralph Waldo Emerson

Sunday, July 19, 2009

Patience...is a virtue

Patience is the key to paradise.

- Turkish proverb

Friday, July 10, 2009

Animal Crackers

Animal crackers, and cocoa to drink. That is the finest of suppers, I think; when I'm grown up and can have what I please I think I shall always insist upon these.

- Christopher Morley, author & journalist

Go For It!

Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover.

- Mark Twain, American writer

Time

Know the true value of time; snatch, seize and enjoy every moment of it. No idleness...never put off till tomorrow what you can do today.

- Lord Chesterfield

Heroes

True heroism is remarkably sober, very undramatic. It is not the urge to surpass all others at whatever cost, but the urge to serve others at whatever cost.

Arthur Ashe


The hero of the future will be that individual with the great mission to overcome the mass feeling of alienation and self-inadequacy. He will recognize that this struggle starts not with his community, nor even with his principal organization, but rather it starts with himself.

Eugene E. Jennings

<3 Heart <3

The road to the head lies through the heart.
-- American Proverb

The head never rules the heart, but just becomes its partner in crime.
-- Mignon McLaughlin

These quotes then led me to seek out the lyrics to the song "Heart" from Damn Yankees!

Pope John Paul II Quote

Every child is a unique and unrepeatable act of God.

Pope John Paul II

Tuesday, July 7, 2009

L O V E

Don't lose touch with your capacity to love; in fact, nurture it, for you will find that it is something that can grow. Let yourself need people, and let them need you.
--Elizabeth Drew

Monday, July 6, 2009

Abraham Lincoln Quote

Nothing valuable can be lost by taking time.
-- Abraham Lincoln

Sunday, July 5, 2009

Vacation

Vacation is what you take when you can't take what you've been taking any longer.

- Lion from Wizard of Oz

Saturday, July 4, 2009

Thriller in LibraryLand

Michael Jackson's Thriller (complete with bookcarts!) performed by the National Library of Australia Staff at their 2008 Christmas Party.



Awesome -- and yes they must be new carts -- all I could think was that really wouldn't work with some of the carts at my library unless you greased them real well.

It also made me of think back to college when we had cart races late at night in the library...fun times!

via effinglibrarian

Friday, July 3, 2009

English Rhyme

For want of a nail, the shoe was lost. For want of the shoe, the horse was lost. For want of the horse, the rider was lost. For want of the rider, the battle was lost. For want of the battle, the kingdom was lost. And all for the want of a horseshoe nail!

- Old English rhyme

Harmony

Be grace. Wield love as your only weapon, and you place yourself on the path to self-mastery, bountiful blessings and the perfect peace we are all longing for.
--Susan L. Taylor


Creating the space to allow others into your heart means letting go of old issues.

--Tijn Touber

Tuesday, June 30, 2009

Shakespeare Quote

Eye of newt, and toe of frog, wool of bat, and tongue of dog, adder's fork, and blind-worm's sting, lizard's leg, and owlet's wing. For a charm of powerful trouble, like a hell-broth boil and bubble.

- Witches in Shakespeare's Macbeth

Alfred Lord Tennyson Quote

Knowledge comes, but wisdom lingers
-- Alfred Lord Tennyson

Insight

Dress a goat in silk and it's still a goat.
-- Celtic Proverb

He is ill clothed that is bare of virtue.
-- Benjamin Franklin

Monday, June 29, 2009

Importance of being Nice

It's nice to be important, but it's more important to be nice.

- Church billboard in Kentucky

Sunday, June 28, 2009

Grace in Small Things 15 of 365

  1. The air was working at church last night -- it was sweltering the week before!

  2. The VBS (Vacation Bible School) Kids singing before the end of the service ~ so cute!

  3. Good Times with Good Friends!

  4. Good Music that makes you smile and dance!

  5. Being open to and learning new things!

Thursday, June 25, 2009

Words o' Wisdom

Yesterday is experience. Tomorrow is hope. Today is getting from one to the other as best we can.

John M. Henry

Tuesday, June 23, 2009

Pooh Musings

“If ever there is tomorrow when we're not together.. there is something you must always remember. you are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think. but the most important thing is, even if we're apart.. I'll always be with you.”
-- Winnie the Pooh

Sunday, June 21, 2009

Louisa May Alcott Quote

Far away in the sunshine are my highest aspirations. I may not reach them, but I can look up and see their beauty, believe in them, and try to follow where they lead.

- Louisa May Alcott, author

Saturday, June 20, 2009

You are Unique

Light a Candle

Your presence is a present to the world.
You are unique and one of a kind.
Your life can be what you want it to be.
Take the days just one at a time.
Count your blessings, not your troubles.
You will make it through whatever comes along.
Within you are so many answers.
Understand, have courage, be strong.
Do not put limits on yourself.
So many dreams are waiting to be realized.
Decisions are too important to leave to chance.
Reach for your peak, your goal and you prize.
Nothing wastes more energy than worrying.
The longer one carries a problem the heavier it gets.
Do not take things too seriously.
Live a life of serenity, not a life of regrets.
Remember that a little love goes a long way.
Remember that a lot … goes forever.
Remember that friendship is a wise investment.
Life’s treasures are people together.
Realize that it is never too late.
Do ordinary things in an extraordinary way.
Have hearth and hope and happiness.
Take the time to wish upon a start.
AND DO NOT EVER FORGET …
FOR EVEN A DAY
HOW VERY SPECIAL YOU ARE!

Thursday, June 18, 2009

Linda Fairstein Quotes

For Librarians --
Guardian Angels of the Mind and the Soul.

My earliest childhood memories of books are of those from which my mother read to me every night before I went to sleep. I still have the frayed volumes of poems by Robert Louis Stevenson and A.A. Milne, and the stories of Beatrix Potter and E.B. White. I remember the first time she took me to the public library in our small city, and with what delight I left that day carrying the three books the librarian entrusted to me. Our favorite weekly excursion - an hour of pure happiness with my mother - was the trip downtown to return the small stack I had selected and replace it with another.

Wherever you are, use your libraries and support them. And when you are in New York City, come visit the great New York Public Library and behold its treasures.

My mother was the kindest person I have ever known, with the most enormous heart and a dazzling smile that invited all comers to share in her happiness. Among the very best things she ever did for me - and there are many - was to nurture my love of books and reading.

NYPL Mission:
Making the accumulated knowledge of the world freely accessible to all, without distinction as to income, religion, nationality, or other human condition.

Tuesday, June 16, 2009

Susan B. Anthony Wisdom

Forget conventionalisms; forget what the world thinks of you stepping out of your place; think your best thoughts, speak your best words, work your best works, looking to your own conscience for approval.

Susan B. Anthony

Sunday, June 14, 2009

Irish Proverb

A good laugh and a long sleep are the best cures in the doctor's book.

- Irish Proverb

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I LOVE to LAUGH!

Zig Ziglar Quote

People often say that motivation doesn't last. Well, neither does bathing--that's why we recommend it daily.

- Zig Ziglar, motivational speaker

Wednesday, June 10, 2009

Quotable Quotes

A quarrel is like buttermilk, the more you stir it,the more sour it grows.
-- Bolivian Proverb

Words can't break bones, but they can break hearts.
-- Roadside Church Signs Across America

Monday, June 8, 2009

Kindness Quote

Kindness is difficult to give away because it keeps coming back.

- Church billboard in Louisiana

Sunday, June 7, 2009

Elvis Quote

When things go wrong don't go with them.

- Elvis Presley

Friday, June 5, 2009

Grace in Small Things 14 of 365

  1. The smell of magnolia flowers

  2. The TINGLE of Burt's Bees Chapstick on your lips

  3. Real Smiles

  4. Leftovers

  5. J-E-L-L-O Pudding

Tuesday, June 2, 2009

Retired Hurricane Names

Agnes (1972)
Alicia (1983)
Allen (1980)
Allison (2001)
Andrew (1992)
Anita (1977)
Audrey (1957)
Betsy (1965)
Beulah (1967)
Bob (1991)
Camille (1969)
Carla (1961)
Carmen (1974)
Carol (1954)
Celia (1970)
Cesar (1996)
Charley (2004)
Cleo (1964)
Connie (1955)
David (1979)
Dean (2007)
Dennis (2005)
Diana (1990)
Diane (1955)
Donna (1960)
Dora (1964)
Edna (1968)
Elena (1985)
Eloise (1975)
Fabian (2003)
Felix (2007)
Fifi (1974)
Flora (1963)
Floyd (1999)
Fran (1996)
Frances (2004)
Frederic (1979)
Georges (1998)
Gilbert (1988)
Gloria (1985)
Gustav (2008)
Hattie (1961)
Hazel (1954)
Hilda (1964)
Hortense (1996)
Hugo (1989)
Ike (2008)
Inez (1966)
Ione (1955)
Iris (2001)
Isabel (2003)
Isidore (2002)
Ivan (2004)
Janet (1955)
Jeanne (2004)
Joan (1988)
Juan (2003)
Katrina (2005)
Keith (2000)
Klaus (1990)
Lenny (1999)
Lili (2002)
Luis (1995)
Marilyn (1995)
Michelle (2001)
Mitch (1998)
Noel (2007)
Opal (1995)
Paloma (2008)
Rita (2005)
Roxanne (1995)
Stan (2005)
Wilma (2005)

via Mags

Malcolm X Quote

The future belongs to those who prepare for it today.

- Malcolm X

Monday, June 1, 2009

There She/He Blows

2009 Hurricane and Tropical Storm Names - Atlantic

  1. Ana
  2. Bill
  3. Claudette
  4. Danny
  5. Erika
  6. Fred
  7. Grace
  8. Henri
  9. Ida
  10. Joaquin
  11. Kate
  12. Larry
  13. Mindy
  14. Nicholas
  15. Odette
  16. Peter
  17. Rose
  18. Sam
  19. Teresa
  20. Victor
  21. Wanda

2009 Hurricane and Tropical Storm Names - Eastern North Pacific

  1. Andres
  2. Blanca
  3. Carlos
  4. Dolores
  5. Enrique
  6. Felicia
  7. Guillermo
  8. Hilda
  9. Ignacio
  10. Jimena
  11. Kevin
  12. Linda
  13. Marty
  14. Nora
  15. Olaf
  16. Patricia
  17. Rick
  18. Sandra
  19. Terry
  20. Vivian
  21. Waldo
  22. Xina
  23. York
  24. Zelda
Found by Merrily via The Daily Green

Esther Dyson Quote

The Internet is like alcohol in some sense. It accentuates what you would do anyway. If you want to be a loner, you can be more alone. If you want to connect, it makes it easier to connect.

-Esther Dyson, Interview in Time Magazine, October 2005

via The Quotations Page

Sunday, May 31, 2009

100 Best Movie Lines in 200 Seconds

Turbo Heather - Radio Controlled Southern Belles

Bach's Toccata and Fugue in D minor on a BIG piano

Melanie Hutsell impersonates Paula Deen

I don't know if the world can handle more than one Paula Deen...

Peanut butter and pickle sandwich...on a hotdog bun



Wondering what to do with your leftover hotdog buns...

Well wonder no more..

I think Elvis would approve!

Marie Curie Quotation

You cannot hope to build a better world without improving individuals.

- Marie Curie, Nobel winning chemist

Sunday, May 24, 2009

Do You Love Me by Ballas Hough Band

How many Dancing with the Stars Alums can YOU spot?

Saturday, May 23, 2009

Chinese Proverb

Listen to all, plucking a feather from every passing goose, but follow no one absolutely.

- Chinese proverb

Wednesday, May 20, 2009

Grace in Small Things 13 of 365

  1. Being Too Happy ;-P

  2. Feeling the Burn

  3. Storytime/Reading Aloud

  4. Frozen Grapes

  5. New Pillows

The Musings of Ad Hudler

So I am currently working my way through Ad Hudler's novels and just had to share his most recent blog post:

We all use litmus tests of some kind or another. My mom has one of the funniest: There are two kinds of people in the world -- cat lovers and assholes.

Here's one I have found to be almost 100-percent true over the years: I enjoy the company of people who listen to National Public Radio for news. They tend to be curious, open-minded and global in their perspective.

Tuesday, May 19, 2009

Audrey Hepburn on Kissing

I believe that laughing is the best calorie burner.
I believe in kissing, kissing a lot.
I believe in being strong when everything seems to be going wrong.
I believe that happy girls are the prettiest girls.
I believe that tomorrow is another day and I believe in miracles.

-
Audrey Hepburn

I have to say Audrey..I agree! ;-)

Intermission

Advice for new graduates

  1. Believe in Yourself. If you believe in yourself, others will believe in you as well. Believe in all that you are, all that you can be, and all that you stand for.

  2. Never Stop Dreaming. Dreamers have the ability to change the world. They envision the impossible and make it happen. Follow your dreams and you will achieve the unachievable.

  3. Do What You Love. Life is too short to not enjoy what you do. Don’t do what you think you should do, or what everyone else wants you to do, or for that matter, what you think everyone wants you to do. Find your own passion, and do what you love.

  4. Stay True to Who You Are. Don’t forget where you came from or what you believe in. Remembering this will help you to make the best decisions in life and will help you to live a life without regret.

  5. Don’t Settle for Mediocrity. In Jim Collin’s first sentence of his book, Good to Great, he states, “Good is the enemy of great.” Good is often sufficient. Greatness, however, never settles. Greatness expects more ... always. Expect the best from yourself and from others, and always look for the opportunities to make things better. Don’t accept things as they are, for positive change comes from improving what is.

  6. Don’t Burn Bridges. There will be times in your life when you may not care what other people think, but you never know when those people may pop up in your life again. Always do the right thing and maintain your relationships, for they may prove to be invaluable when you least expect it.

  7. Live Honestly and with Integrity. At the end of the day, you only have to answer to yourself. Live in a way that makes you proud and in a way that enables you to look in the mirror every morning and like what you see.

  8. Live with Humility. We all are imperfect and it is important to acknowledge our flaws just as much as our positive traits. Be thankful for your talents, for your successes and for the good fortune that comes your way. Don’t ever expect things just because you think you deserve them. You have to earn them.

  9. Love, Respect, and Forgive Yourself. Self-love is most important when it comes to finding and experiencing love with others. Always treat yourself with kindness and forgive yourself for the times that you make mistakes.

  10. Love Others Openly. When you love, love openly and unconditionally. This will allow you to experience a deeper love that can celebrate the best of times, as well as get you through the worst of times.
Via Divine Caroline

Monday, May 18, 2009

Grace in Small Things 12 of 365

  1. Dried Cranberries

  2. Making someone smile or laugh

  3. Singing along with your favorite song

  4. Coloring for relaxation

  5. Listening to someone read aloud

Kelly's Epic Music Poem

Put your music player on shuffle & write down the first line of the first twenty songs.

Post the poem that results!

(1)Everyday, it's a gettin' closer,
(2) And it's called the moulin rouge, feel the beat of the rhythm of the night, forget about the worries on your mind,
(3)What's the sense in sharing, this one and only life,
(4)Zip-A-Dee-Doo-Dah, Zip-A-Dee-A, My oh my what a wonderful day!
(5)Coming out of my cage, and I've been doin' just fine, gotta be down, because I want it all
(6)In other words,
(7)Some say love it is a river,
(8)Get down, Get Down, Get down, Get Down, Get down, Get Down,
(9)I wanna be loved by you,
(10)I know we're broken,
(11)Sweet dreams are made of this, Who am I to disagree?
(12)Powder your face with sunshine, put on a great big smile,
(13)Little Bird, little bird, in the cinnamon tree,
(14)Be careful with my heart, (cuidado con mi corazon) you could break it,
(15)Ho ho haaaaaaaa
(16)Goodbye my love, God bless you.
(17)Don't the hours grow shorter as the days go by,
(18)Here we are in the arms of one another,
(19)Well, a gypsy lady once told me son, you got the kind of soul that's gotta be free,
(20)You can scrutinize my actions, you can break me into fractions, you can walk away

Hmmm an interesting mix..that is for sure!

Grant L. Miller Quote

Stop living life for what's around the corner and start enjoying the walk down the street.

- Grant L. Miller, motivational guru

Sunday, May 17, 2009

Grace in Small Things 11 of 365

  1. Lazy Sundays

  2. Accomplishments/Finishing Things

  3. Love

  4. Being in the Moment

  5. Free Drinks!

Tuesday, May 5, 2009

B.B. I'll Miss You...

So I found out today that a patron of mine died last week.

While I am saddened, I was reminded that she isn't suffering anymore and is in a better place.

So I am happy for her but sad that I won't her bright smiling face anymore.

Much Love -- B.B. you will be greatly missed!

Words to Live By...

In a world that seems increasingly snarky and judgmental, be kind.
Be kind to your friends, be kind to your family, be kind to yourselves.
And remember, just as you are, everyone really is just doing the best they can.

Katie Couric

Sunday, April 19, 2009

Queen Bohemian Rhapsody Old School Computer Remix

This is nerdriffic!

Indian Cosby Intro

Bill Cosby + Bollywood Music = Awesome!

Perfect Strangers Video Flashbacks

Apparently Balki performed the first RickRoll!



Here is a Balki B. video that appears (to me) to be a mash-up of Milli Vanilli, M.C. Hammer and Paula Abdul!



Also..I can't think of Perfect Strangers without thinking of the Dance of Joy!

You Got to Have Pep

John Lithgow says "Eat your Veggies Kiddos!"

Friday, April 10, 2009

Grace in Small Things 10 of 365

  1. *Free* movie rentals from the library

  2. Laughing

  3. No lines at the supermarket

  4. A good book

  5. One day left to work till the weekend :-)

Saturday, April 4, 2009

Grace in Small Things 9 of 365


  1. Memorial Luminaries

  2. Cancer Relay for Life

  3. Raising over 45 thousand dollars

  4. Playing Frisbee

  5. *Finally* walking over 10,000 steps in a day! Go me :-)

Monday, March 9, 2009

VERY INTERESTING STUFF

This came from my Aunt in Texas!


In the 1400's a law was set forth in England that a man was allowed to beat his wife with a stick no thicker than his thumb. Hence we have "the rule of thumb"


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Many years ago in Scotland , a new game was invented. It was ruled "Gentlemen Only...Ladies Forbidden"...and thus the word GOLF entered into the English language.


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The first couple to be shown in bed together on prime time TV were Fred and Wilma Flintstone.


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Every day more money is printed for Monopoly than the U.S . Treasury.


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Men can read smaller print than women can; women can hear better.


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Coca-Cola was originally green.


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It is impossible to lick your elbow.


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The State with the highest percentage of people who walk to work:

Alaska

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The percentage of Africa that is wilderness: 28% (now get this...)


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The percentage of North America that is wilderness: 38%

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The cost of raising a medium-size dog to the age of eleven: $ 16,400

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The average number of people airborne over the U.S. in any given hour:

61,000

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Intelligent people have more zinc and copper in their hair.


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The first novel ever written on a typewriter: Tom Sawyer.


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The San Francisco Cable cars are the only mobile National Monuments.


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Each king in a deck of playing cards represents a great king from history:


Spades - King David

Hearts - Charlemagne

Clubs -Alexander, the Great

Diamonds - Julius Caesar

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111,111,111 x 111,111,111 = 12,345,678,987,654,321

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If a statue in the park of a person on a horse has both front legs in the air, the person died in battle. If the horse has one front leg in the air the person died as a result of wounds received in battle. If the horse has all four legs on the ground, the person died of natural causes.


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Only two people signed the Declaration of Independence on July 4th, John Hancock and Charles Thomson. Most of the rest signed on August 2, but the last signature wasn't added until 5 years later.


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Q. Half of all Americans live within 50 miles of what?


A. Their birthplace

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Q. Most boat owners name their boats. What is the most popular boat name requested?


A. Obsession

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Q. If you were to spell out numbers, how far would you have to go until you would find the letter "A"?


A. One thousand

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Q. What do bulletproof vests, fire escapes, windshield wipers, and laser printers all have in common?


A. All were invented by women.


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Q. What is the only food that doesn't spoil?


A. Honey

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Q. Which day are there more collect calls than any other day of the year?


A. Father's Day

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In Shakespeare's time, mattresses were secured on bed frames by ropes.

When you pulled on the ropes the mattress tightened, making the bed firmer to sleep on. Hence the phrase......... "goodnight, sleep tight."


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It was the accepted practice in Babylon 4,000 years ago that for a month after the wedding, the bride's father would supply his son-in-law with all the mead he could drink. Mead is a honey beer and because their calendar was lunar based, this period was called the honey month, which we know today as the honeymoon.


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In English pubs, ale is ordered by pints and quarts... So in old England , when customers got unruly, the bartender would yell at them "Mind your pints and quarts, and settle down."


It's where we get the phrase "mind your P's and Q's"


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Many years ago in England , pub frequenters had a whistle baked into the rim, or handle, of their ceramic cups. When they needed a refill, they used the whistle to get some service. "Wet your whistle" is the phrase inspired by this practice.


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At least 75% of people who read this will try to lick their elbow!


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Elsa Schiapirelli Quote

A good cook is a sorceress who dispenses happiness.

- Elsa Schiapirelli

Sunday, March 8, 2009

Originality Quote

Nothing of me is Original.
I am the combined effort of everybody I've ever known.

-Chuck Palahnuik, Invisible Monsters

Sunday, March 1, 2009

Grace in Small Things 8 of 365

  1. Snow - it snowed in Alabama!
    Many snowmen were built and snow angels were made - it was truly beautiful to behold.

  2. The Music of the Beatles (I just viewed Across the Universe)

  3. Eating breakfast foods at lunch or dinner *bacon*

  4. A lapcat to help keep you warm

  5. Trying different foods outside your comfort zone

Happy White Rabbit's Day

I got this via email -- and really liked it.

Recently I overheard a mother and daughter in their last moments together at the airport. They had announced the departure. Standing near the security gate, they hugged and the mother said, 'I love you and I wish you enough'.

The daughter replied, 'Mom, our life together has been more than enough. Your love is all I ever needed. I wish you enough, too, Mom'.



They kissed and the daughter left. The mother walked over to the window where I was seated. Standing there I could see she wanted and needed to cry. I tried not to intrude on her privacy but she welcomed me in by asking, 'Did you ever say good-bye to someone knowing it would be forever?'

'Yes, I have,' I replied. 'Forgive me for asking, but why is this forever good-bye?'

'I am old and she lives so far away. I have challenges ahead and the reality is - the next trip back will be for my funeral,' she said.

'When you were saying good-bye, I heard you say, 'I wish you enough'. May I ask what that means? '.

She began to smile. 'That's a wish that has been handed down from other generations. My parents used to say it to everyone'. She paused a moment and looked up as if trying to remember it in detail and she smiled even more. 'When we said, 'I wish you enough', we want the other person to have a life filled with just enough good things to sustain them'. Then turning toward me, she shared the following as if she were reciting it from memory.

I wish you enough sun to keep your attitude bright no matter how gray the day may appear.


I wish you enough rain to appreciate the sun even more.

I wish you enough happiness to keep your spirit alive and everlasting.

I wish you enough pain so that even the smallest of joys in life may appear bigger.

I wish you enough gain to satisfy your wanting.

I wish you enough loss to appreciate all that you possess
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I wish you enough hellos to get you through the final good-bye.


She then began to cry and walked away.